It is a very sad to know that one adult fall into hurts during enjoyable Transition Periord without proper guidance from the family. If one got hurts in this period, it will reflects in his activity hurtful to others." Unknowingly his lifestyles make others hurtful or questionable. BUT, there is a way to overcome this, when the adult cope with the healing process. Without healing, he can not maintain good mindset to do his own works, family's responsibility and social activities. So, it's good to come out of critical situations as much soon without delayed.
1. Understanding the Need of Healing
1. Many adults are not concerned that they need healing from hurtful situations happened. And they wrongly believe that Time will heal. But they lose the beauty of transition period and blessings. But they need a healing to recover from such situations.
2. And moreover, if any failures happened in marks, life, ambition, etc during this transition period, they fall into frustration. They hide themselves from society and become more stressed. So they are in a condition of a need of healing.
3. Many focus on "Time heals". But it's not always applicable for better healing. Time can make wounds more dangerous too. So, rely on God's time, not our own time planning. So, healing is necessary when you understand the realities of struggle in transition period.
2. Seeking a Proper Guidance
1. It is normal, adults can try own ways to come out, but those ways give more frustrations. Therefore it is good to seek a proper guidance without any shyness.
2. God created human being to support each other and live a harmonious life. So, don't think that, "I am the only person in this situation and it's shameful for me to ask others guidance." God's people are not always underestimate you. "Guidance as medicine". So don't neglect the medicine to heal.
3. Try to Mingle with Good People
1. When one adult in frustrations, he try to hide himself from others to feel comfortable. But this comfortable is not give good solution. Instead of this, it is good to mingle with good people as like earlier. It makes adult to grow up in a better way.
2. The more you spend time with good people, make your ways very strong and firm. Selfishness always is a barrier to mingle with others.
4. Careful in Body fitness vs Mental Fitness
1. There is a common thing among adults, when they are in frustrations in mentally, they started exercising, listening music, and etc. It gives temporary relief from stressful situations. But they are not giving permanent solution.
2. So, they try to start mental fitness challenges with out a proper guidance. It leads to more frustrations with family and society. So be careful in order to follow mind fitness challenges.
5. Live a Normal and Natural Life
1. Adults Start to live a life with so much of schedule when they start to realise them. But they failed to realise how they are going to follow them or how their lifestyle affect family or society. "Sudden decisions lead to be live abnormal life or namely matured life make them more dangerous"
2. It is enough to live a natural life with what we have and who we have as earlier. God knows how we grow and develop ourselves. God does not want to change badly in character for our goodness (selfish).
Friends, you can get healing when you are ready to open up. You can enjoy the transition period when you are willing.
You can make others happy in this time too, when you are being a human....
May our God heal you...
Part 5 (How to handle time in this transition period) will be continued next series.
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