Men! Thine Frailty is Women
Women in general are deceptive and so are our emotions! More craftily deceptive are our emotions when they are triggered by a woman. And crazily deceptive when the woman is beautiful! If we trace back a little bit of creation history, we know it was Eve who was deceived by the serpent but Adam was deceived by the woman. The devil uses the same strategy till date. Many words are missing in the Devil's dictionary and one is “update”. Many a woman have skillfully mastered the art of deceiving us, poor men, by exploiting our emotions at will. This is emotional control and a fatal trap too. You can be stung by your own emotions when its controlled. Its identical to shooting your own foot or blowing your own brains out by your own shot gun! Never forget that Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Our hardwares and softwares are programmed to function differently. With Venus comes the unique art of setting traps that catches the Marcians completely unawares, just as the Marcians have their own set of tools to tackle their feminine counterparts.
The emotional ploy is almost always innate in women, it is just that a few godly ones keep it in check perpetually and do not manipulate it to their advantage. It is an established fact that women are physically weak but are emotional giants. There is always a guarantee that a man is likely to be whitewashed in an emotional game with a woman. Yes! Men are emotional babes. Although they have enough muscle power, it hardly helps them in an emotional encounter. This is why men fall in love, which is just the beginning, several other painful falls are sure to follow thereafter. Very few intelligent ones however get out of this toxic relationship as early as possible before its too late. The remaining get beaten, slapped, punched, wrestled, strangled, demeaned and even destroyed at times. One can more or less relate this sorrow-filled souls to puppies, desperately longing for scraps from their villainess. Poor puppies! They are also equivalent to lambs that are led to the slaughter. If only they realize from what heights they have fallen.
Getting back to normalcy after such an emotional roller coaster is ridiculously time consuming since our young blood by now are at an emotional disarray and its not worth the immature love. Not one bit! Men grow beards, get hooked to drinking, smoking, and even drugs. Women sure will not grow beards after a relational disaster such as this even if they could. Perhaps they would opt in style for a goatee!
Is there a man who would showcase his physical strength to outclass a woman? No, it is done only on attraction grounds to woo her, but definitely not to challenge her or forcefully remind her of her limitations. But with women, its exactly the opposite. When a man comes into a woman’s life, the emotional tug of war begins from the word, go. Venusians are all the more ready to showcase their emotional strengths, given the chance. Thanks to feminism for their enormous success in awakening their sleepy monsters within! Women always think that they are inferior to men and are ready to prove otherwise at the slightest opportunity. They continue to live with this lens throughout their lives. This harrowing trend continues even after wedding. Only in Christ is it taken away.
Humans are Spirit Beings
This article is never to mar the image of women and to portray them as filled with evil, though it may seem so in the first reading. It is just an awareness that men do not have a chance, one on one with women, emotionally. We men are fully aware that sadly there are playboys too. So, this is not about gender discrimination. The devil is much craftier than we think. He can tighten the noose to emotionally smother us through the opposite sex. Haste makes waste. True taste is in waiting for the right person, that's the perfect timing. Patience is a virtue and the mother of all virtues as well. In the end, its always worth the wait. Matchmaking is God’s business and we would definitely screw the whole thing up if we ruggedly intervene. Men constantly have emotional and physical attraction towards women, no doubt. This is natural but randomly following our passions is quite unnatural. It is devilish, to be precise.
Concluding Remarks
The question is, with God’s Spirit, are our emotions in control? Or is the devil wrecking havoc in our emotional lives? Let us be watchful and mindful so that we safely and securely evade the luring of the devil and pin him down with God’s mighty power.
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Acknowledgement
J.Judson
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